Flowers Fit for a Wedding

Choosing Your Florist

It is advisable to employ a florist to supply the flower arrangements. Most of the work with the flowers is done the day before and the morning of the wedding when the couple and their families are at their busiest. Therefore unless the floral displays are very simple it is wise to have them professionally prepared.

When deciding on a florist seek personal recommendations from friends and recently married acquaintances. If you are unable to decide, it is best to visit several and look at their displays. Most florists will allow you visit them at a time when they have prepared flowers for other weddings so that you can see the quality of their work.

Decisions regarding the flowers should only be made once the wedding outfits have been chosen. The style and colour scheme of flowers should be in keeping with the wedding and in particular reflect the personality of the bride.

The florist should be given notice of the wedding approximately four months in advance so that he is free on the day. The florist will want to discuss precise details around six weeks before the wedding.

Meanings of Flowers

Over the centuries certain flowers have acquired meanings. Some brides take account of the meanings of flowers when deciding which blooms to include in their bouquet. A list of flowers with their meanings is given below.

Seasonal Flowers

Many flowers can now be obtained out of season because they are grown in greenhouses and are imported from other parts of the world. Seasonal flowers, however, are more likely to be fresher and less expensive.

Flowers That Look Great and Are Easy To Get All Year

• Baby's Breath -- white and delicate, used to mix with other flowers
• Bachelor's Button -- available in white, pink, red, or blue, symbolizes hope
• Carnation -- available in a million colours, means you'll love many
• Gardenia -- white and fragrant, this lovely bloom represents joy
• Gladiolus -- million colours, stands for sincerity
• Lily of the Valley -- white and pink, and symbolizes humility
• Orchid -- pink, white or purple orchids mean beauty
• Rose -- any colour of the rainbow, almost, and will always mean, I love you
• Stephanotis -- white and delicate, this flower symbolizes a happy marriage

Winter Wonderland

• Calla Lily -- white, purveyor of purity
• Camellia -- lovely in pink and white, this flower represents gratitude
• Forget-Me-Not -- blue, stands for remembrance
• Holly -- luscious green with deep red berries, holly brings domestic bliss
• Ivy -- mostly green or variegated, with the true quality of fidelity
• Orchid -- pink, purple, and white, symbolizing beauty
• Poinsettia -- traditional holiday flower, comes in red, white, and pink
• Tulip -- many colours, means perfect lover

Spring Flowers

• Anemone -- available in many bright, poppy-like colours, it means forsaken many
• Apple Blossom -- soft, romantic, and white
• Calla Lily -- available in a few colours, but most popular in white, this elegant flower symbolizes purity
• Daffodil -- yellow, means unity
• Forsythia -- yellow, and symbolizes anticipation
• Geranium -- most common in red and pink, this traditional flower stands for unity
• Hyacinth -- purple, pink, or white, this flower stands for constancy
• Iris -- in many colours, this flower always means good health
• Jonquil -- perfectly spring pale yellow, means affection shared
• Lilac -- fragrant in violet or white, lilacs are the sign of new love
• Larkspur -- comes in blue, and means decidedly fickle
• Magnolia -- thick white blossoms, symbolizes love of nature
• Narcissus -- this white bloom represents formality
• Orange Blossom -- traditional white wedding flower, symbolizes happiness
• Tulip -- any colour you wish, give this to your lover and tell them they're perfect
• Violet -- richly purple, symbolizes faithfulness

Summer Blossoms

• Aster -- white, pink, and rose colours, means daintiness
• Calla Lily -- several colours, most popular white for purity
• Daisy -- bright and white with a touch of yellow, means you'll share your feelings
• Hydrangea -- purple, symbolizes understanding
• Forget-Me-Not -- delicate and blue, this is the flower of remembrance
• Peony -- get them pink, magenta, or white, and they'll symbolize a happy marriage
• Sweet Pea -- comes in many colours, perfect for someone you're just meeting
• Zinnia -- red, orange, or pink are most popular, and means thinking of you

Autumn Blooms

• Aster -- white, pink, or rose Asters represent daintiness
• Chrysanthemum -- whether it's gold, red, or white, it means a good friend
• Dahlia -- tons of colours for this traditional autumn flower
• Marigold -- blazing gold/red, marigolds harbour sacred affection
• Zinnia -- red, orange, or pink, symbolizes thinking of you
• Leaves and Foliage -- symbol of wedded love
• Dried Flowers -- represents sadness

The Bride's Bouquet

Colour

In the past the bride's bouquet was compose of white flowers to symbolise purity. Although some brides still choose to have a white bouquet, many choose colours which complement the bride and bridesmaids' dresses as well as the general colour scheme of the wedding.

When choosing flowers it is worth taking a sample of fabric from the bride's dress to the florist. This can be a great help when matching colours. This applies even if the bride has a white wedding dress and wants a white bouquet because whites can vary in their shade and intensity.

Shape

There are several classic shapes of bouquet and good florists have a selection of photographs to demonstrate them. The florist should also be able to advise on which flowers match the chosen shape bearing in mind the colour scheme and seasonal availability.

The most popular designs include the trailing waterfall shape and the round posy of tightly arranged flowers.

The trailing waterfall shape draws the eye from top to bottom and can therefore have a slimming effect. However, it can overshadow a petite bride if its too big. The cascading shape of bouquet best complements a full length skirt. It can result in an unbalanced look with shorter skirt lengths.

The posy style of bouquet draws attention to the middle of the body. It may not be suitable for brides not wishing to draw attention to their hips and also for very tall brides.

The bouquet is held just below waist level. If this is likely to obscure a feature of the dress which the bride particularly wishes to be seen then she can choose a bouquet which lies across the arm.

As a general rule large bouquets suit formal, long dresses while smaller bouquets or even a single bloom are more in proportion with a knee-length dress.

• The bouquet ribbons are tied at the ends into knots to symbolise unity.
• Preserving the Bouquet
• There are several ways of preserving the bouquet as a souvenir.
• The bouquet can be dried and kept whole or dismantled and a collage made from the dried, pressed flowers.
• A replica of the bouquet can be made from silk flowers.
• Suitable shoots can used as cuttings to grow new plants.

Alternatives to Floral Bouquets

• Instead of a bouquet the bride may choose to carry:
• Bible
• White prayer book
• Parasol
• Fan
• Dorothy bag
• Headdress

Some brides choose to wear floral headdresses. A well chosen headdress can create a spectacular effect. The florist should be able to give advice on matching the headdress to the dress and the bouquet.

Flowers by their nature are delicate and care must be taken not to disturb them through the day as this can spoil their effect. Additionally, advice should be taken from the florist on choosing flowers that will not wilt, particularly if it likely to be a hot day. One possible solution to this problem is to choose a headdress of flowers made of silk or some other fabric. These will look good all day and can be kept as a memento of the day.

The bridesmaids may also wear a floral headdresses or incorporate flowers into their hair style.

Bridesmaids' Posies

The bridesmaids usually carry posies which are smaller than the bride's bouquet. The colour and style should match their dresses and the overall scheme of the wedding. If the bridesmaids are very young they may damage flowers by over-handling or grow tired of holding the posy. An alternative may be allow them a small basket which is easier to handle.

Corsages

Corsages may be worn by the couple's mothers. They are small floral arrangements worn as buttonholes.

Buttonholes

Buttonholes are usually worn by the groom, the couple's fathers, the best man and the ushers. If the couple wish, they may provide buttonholes for all their guests.

The groom usually wears a single white carnation to match the brides dress. The best man and the fathers wear a double red carnation and the ushers a single red or white carnation.

Other colours of carnation and other flowers, for example roses, may be worn as buttonhole.

Carnations are usually supplied by florists with a sprig of greenery and the stems wrapped so they are easy to fasten and remain fresh for the whole proceedings.

Flowers for the Wedding Ceremony

Church

The decoration of the church should be discussed with minister at the first meeting to find out what the church's policy is. Some churches will not allow flowers to brought in. The church supplies the floral arrangements. Others will allow the couple to supply the flowers.

Often churches have regular helpers who arrange the flower displays and who will help display the wedding flowers for a contribution to church funds. Because they are familiar with the Church they known what looks the most effective. This is a great help for the inexperienced flower arranger, particularly at this hectic time. Alternatively the florist will arrange the displays.

When the church is hosting several weddings on the same day there will not be time to change the floral arrangements. The church will be decorated by the church flower arrangers and cost divided amongst the couples. The Church decorators are usually available to discuss the type of arrangements with couples.

If couple have very specific ideas about the way they want to decorate the church it may be advisable to choose a less popular day, when theirs will be the only wedding taking place in the church.

If the couple or their family is decorating the church, this is usually done the day before the wedding.

Locations for Flowers in the Church

• Lichgate
• Entrance
• Pew ends
• Isle ends
• Pulpit
• Window ledges
• Around font
• Columns
• Alter and chancel
• Alter steps

Register Office

Because weddings take place in Register Offices every day they are suitably decorated and most will have at least one flower arrangement. Registrars may also allow further displays to be brought in but this should be discussed at an early stage of planning with the Registrar's office. The main concern is that setting up displays does not disturb other ceremonies taking place on the same day.

Flowers at the Reception

Some reception venues such as hotels and restaurants often include floral arrangement as part of their service. Others may make a charge. Most venues will allow the couple to supply their own floral decorations. The management should be consulted to arrange a convenient time to set up the displays which will not inconvenience the catering arrangements.

The decorations usually consist of a large display just inside the entrance which is seen by guests as they enter the reception room, and arrangements on each of the tables for guests. The top table occupied by the newlyweds usually has a more ornate arrangement.

Large halls and marquees usually provide plain backgrounds and therefore flower arrangements should be spectacular and large to catch the eye.

Decorating with potted plants is a good idea as they can subsequently be used in the newlyweds new home.

Cake Flowers

Many couples choose to decorate the cake with flowers instead of bride and groom figures. The flowers may be display in a silver vase or a small spray laid on top of the cake. A simple yet effective alternative is to place a single flower on the cake. Any flower which sits flat such as a stem less, slightly opened rose or a large daisy will be suitable.

The caterer who supplies the cake will be able to supply the flowers and vase. Alternatively the florist supplying the bouquet and other flowers could also supply the cake flowers to ensure a harmonious colour match.

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